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Ask Sophie: Cis v Trans Women in Sports + The TRUTH about the 2024 Paris Olympics Gender Controversy QUESTION Facebook Question from Matt: Do you think trans women should be able to compete in sports with cis women? ANSWER Unequivocally YES! A trans woman boxing a cis woman is no different from a cis woman boxing a cis woman. Watch the video to learn exactly why that is. Matt's question is entirely predicated on the idea that the boxers who were victimized during the 2024 Paris Gender Controversy are men or trans women. They are neither, but in this video, I explore the truth behind the entire scandal. Even though I debunk all of the IBA's claims and expose just how corrupt and insidious their persecution of these two women really was, I go a step further. Let's pretend that they were correct in each of their claims that Imane Khelif and Lin Yu-ting: • Have XY chromosomes • Were men impersonating females • Have high testosterone at a man's level • Are actually trans women • Have penises Even holding these things to be true (which they are NOT), I am still easily able to destroy their arguments. This is because women with any or all of these attributes can still safely compete against cis women in contact and combat sports. Watch to see the research and evidence as to why, and reply to let me know what you think! POLL CHAPTERS 00:00:00 Introduction 00:01:07 Housekeeping 00:10:13 BS Olympics Controversy 00:26:18 1 - XY Chromosome Females 00:47:47 2 - Female Impersonation 01:01:17 3 - High Testosterone 01:18:50 4 - Trans Women in Sports 01:38:58 5 - Dangers of Transphobia 02:03:53 6 - Look Back to Look Forward 02:24:30 Conclusion (TL:DW) RESOURCES withsophie.co/links CITATIONS View all 126 unique and categorized sources, websites, videos, charts, articles, research papers, and books here: withsophie.co/post/citations-women-in-sports

Ask Sophie: Sex and Chronic Illness QUESTION SexWithSophie.com member Emily asks: How do you navigate sex when you're chronically ill with a condition that greatly limits your energy and recovery? ANSWER The video gives tips and tricks for anyone suffering from a chronic illness, but here is some of the most helpful advice if you suffer from low energy and prolonged recovery like Emily: • Communicate your anxieties with your partner • Incorporate more intimacy without the expectation of sex • Strengthen your pelvic floor • Track your symptoms and emotions • Schedule sex, which sounds very un-sexy, but can be fun • Plan to take meds, soak in a warm bath, and prep beforehand • Save your energy by delegating as much as possible • Find a knowledgeable LMFT, sex therapist, or sexologist Of course, watch the video for more! I researched a ton of great information on adjustments you can make if you have a specific condition like arthritis, lung disease, dementia, or diabetes to name a few. POLL WARNING Sophie is not a doctor, therapist, or licensed medical or mental health professional. This video is a collection of research, data, and information; it is NOT medical advice. Please consult your provider to discuss your plan and ensure you are healthy enough for sexual activity. RESOURCES withsophie.co/links CITATIONS • Benavidez, G. A., Zahnd, W. E., Hung, P., & Eberth, J. M. (2024). Chronic disease prevalence in the US: Sociodemographic and geographic variations by ZIP code tabulation area. Preventing Chronic Disease, 21. https://doi.org/10.5888/pcd21.230267 • Nusbaum, M. R., Hamilton, C., & Lenahan, P. (2003). Chronic illness and sexual functioning. American family physician, 67(2), 347–354. • Zink, I., & Palter, J. (2020). Sex-Interrupted: Igniting Intimacy While Living With Illness Or Disability. • Rocketto, L. (2021, May 24). 7 Tips from a Rheumatology Nurse to Help Maintain Sex and Intimacy When Living with a Chronic Illness. CreakyJoints. https://creakyjoints.org/lifestyle/maintain-sex-intimacy-with-chronic-illness • Department of Health & Human Services. (n.d.). Sex and chronic illness. Better Health Channel. https://www.betterhealth.vic.gov.au/health/servicesandsupport/Sex-and-chronic-illness#bhc-content • Sexuality after chronic illness: What to expect. (n.d.). https://www.henryford.com/services/gynecology/sexual-health/sexuality-after-illness

Sophie shares some pretty wild stories detailing why sex education is so important in The 30 Reasons Telethon, an event in support of Sex With Sophie. The 30 Reasons Telethon CLICK HERE to go to the episode page and REGISTER to view Exclusive Member's Only content!